How to be classy but still fun

The ultimate guide to becoming classy, fun and sexy

To be both classy and fun is one of those golden trait combinations that drives guys wild.

The only thing that possibly can be better is to be classy but still sexy. In this article, I will explain how to be all 3. Fasten your seatbelts and let’s go for a wild drive.

Follow my guide and you will become classy (which I take it, you already are 😉 ), fun and sexy, all wrapped into one confident fun-loving girl.

How to be classy but still fun

1. Confidence is key

Confidence is the single most important trait you have to cultivate to be both classy and fun at the same time.

Confidence is also the quality that makes all those other traits sing.

Confident girls feel comfortable in many different kinds of situations and are thus more fun to be around. Confident girls know how to act in posh situations as well as how to have a good laugh about things.

2. Be sporty

Being a sporty girl is an excellent way to combine being classy with being fun.

Rich classy people generally love sport, you need to be wealthy to have the time to stay healthy and active and practice sports.

Most guys love sports, and they love a girl who will enjoy a good game, whether it is football or baseball.

Don’t forget to bring out your tennis racket since tennis is the classiest sport of them all. You can also be classy but still fun by enjoying watching sports with your guy.

3. Watch comedy

To be fun to be around you have to be able to be funny. Being able to joke around and make your guy laugh shows that you are confident enough not to take yourself too seriously.

Classy people are often well-rounded people that can be both serious and funny.

Being funny takes guts

We all have a funny, goofy side, but sometimes we are afraid of showing it. No need to worry. Guys will respond very well to you being your true funny self.

Make sure you further develop this side of yourself by watching comedy.

4. Be spontaneous

Classy people are able to be spontaneous because they have lots of money and a flexible schedule.

They can jet-set off to Greece without a worry. They don’t have to think about their job or finances.

Say yes to adventure

I don’t advise you to rack up credit card debt. But do be spontaneous. When your guy suggests an adventurous trek, go for it.

Also, suggest different fun adventures, both with dates and with your friend. It is classy to be brave and adventurous, it is also definitely fun.

If you want more ideas on how to increase your attraction, read our article How to appear more attractive as a woman.

5. Spend time with yourself

Many people would overlook this very important part. But classy people know how to take care of themselves. They also know that proper self-care takes time. Cook healthy food for yourself, and have a good spiritual practice such as prayer or meditation.

Be up to date with current events

Don’t be afraid to be alone with yourself and to develop yourself. Read interesting books, listen to podcasts to develop your intellectual side. Classy people know about what’s going on in the world.

When you take care of yourself, you will automatically be more fun to be around since you will be happy and content.

6. Be playful

As girls, we naturally have a feminine, playful energy, but sometimes we don’t realize exactly how attractive those qualities are. Always nurture and embrace this side of yourself.

Embrace your creative side

Allow yourself to be creative; dance, pick flowers, and create music. Be passionate and enthusiastic. When you are playful around guys, you naturally come across as both classy and fun.

Don’t make the mistake of thinking that you need to be serious to be classy. To embrace your feminine side is always classy.

How to be classy but still sexy

1. Dress the part

We all have clothes that make us feel great. It’s not about a specific style, it’s about you knowing yourself and what looks good on you. It is also about investing in yourself.

Choose feminine clothes

But yes, when you want to be classy but still sexy, a red dress (or any dress) helps. Men are visual and they are naturally attracted to feminine things such as lace and happy, vibrant colors.

Look your best

Men, in general, respond very well to a well-groomed woman. Make sure you invest in your looks and in your wardrobe. Wear a nice piece of jewelry, a great perfume, and get an expensive haircut. All of this will increase your sex appeal. It will also make you feel classier and sexier at the same time.

When you feel classy and sexy you radiate those very same qualities.

2. Be mysterious

Let’s bring out our secret weapon, because a mysterious woman is sexy, she is also still classy. Being mysterious is so important that we wrote a whole article about it; How to be mysterious.

Being mysterious is all about not telling someone everything about yourself and not answering their every question.

Let him work towards getting to know you. Say no to some of his suggestions and don’t give an explanation.

Make your own path in life

You should also often leave early, rather than stay the whole evening. Mysterious women are women who have a lot of things going on in their life.

3. Listen to his every word

A classy woman knows how to be present; she is a great listener, and she makes other people feel good about themselves.

“When your”“target” talks, focus all your attention on him, be fully present and show him that you love listening to him.”When your “target” talks, focus all your attention on him, be fully present and show him that you love listening to him.

We all want to be heard.

Make him feel charismatic

In fact, nothing is sexier than being listened to. We all want to be charming and interesting and by being a good listener, you make men feel exactly this.

Don’t be afraid to listen intensely and show him how interesting you find him. Men respond very well to attention. If he gets more attention from you than anyone else, he will find you both classy and sexy.

4. Think naughty thoughts

No one can read your thoughts, but the things you are thinking about reflect in your behavior. If you think about funny things, you will have a smile on your face.

Contrary to common belief, men are very good at picking up subconscious signals from women when it comes to sex.

So when you want a man to become attracted to you and to think you are sexy, think sexy thoughts about him. Naughty thoughts will naturally make their way up to the level of your body language.

Imagine sex

Look at his body and imagine kissing him naked in bed. Imagine yourself touching him and teasing him.

“If he asks what you are thinking about just give him a small smile and say,”“You”” or”“You would like to know?””If he asks what you are thinking about just give him a small smile and say, “You.” or “You would like to know?”

Since nothing is explicit, you will still be classy.

5. Embraces your sensual side

Get to know your sexuality, find out what you like and what turns you on.

Have a sexuality with yourself.

You don’t have to bring out the dildo every evening but treat yourself as a sensual creature. Listen to romantic music, take a bath, pamper yourself, sleep in freshly washed linen, light candles, and cook sensual food.

You are your own lover

Do all the things you would do with a new lover but do them for yourself. Give yourself time and presence and attention. How you treat yourself will greatly impact how other people treat you. We teach other people how they should treat us by the way we treat ourselves.

6. Be well-educated

Choose a couple of interesting books and podcasts and spend a day expanding your knowledge about the world. Someone who can carry a conversation is both classy and sexy.

Classy people are usually very well-educated, they know the importance of staying up to date with ideas and society as a whole. Guys can also quickly tell if they have something in common with the girl they just met.

Make the conversation sign

Sexual energy gets created mainly through conversations, so make sure you have something to say. Do talk about the things you are learning and reading. Ask about his passions.

When people talk about the things they are passionate about, they transfer the feeling of passion to the person they are talking with. Get him fired up about his favorite subject and he will feel fired up about you.

A final note

Becoming classy, fun and sexy is about you taking the qualities you already have and cultivating them.

You are already all of those things.

As humans, we are attracted to each other and we are looking for connection. We like each other. To excel in human connection is ultimately about you treating yourself with care and respect.