There are different kinds of rich men. When you want a rich man to fall in love with you, you have to choose which type you want to target.
You make him fall in love with you by tailoring your approach to his unique needs. All rich men have secret desires. When these are triggered, they will helplessly fall in love with you. The different types of rich men have different triggers.
What rich men want and need to fall in love with a specific woman
- Someone who can charm them and everyone around them. They want charisma
- Someone beautiful and well-groomed (aka a Trophy Wife)
- Someone who is not intimidated by his money
- Someone who brings a lot of value to his life
- Someone who admires him
- Someone they can 100 percent trust
Those are the top 6 qualities a rich man looks for. Once you embody them, the rich man of your choice will fall in love with you.
How to meet rich men
I had a friend who flew first class around the world for a whole year (she spent all her savings) to try and meet and marry a rich man. That plan didn’t work out, and she ended up marrying a carpenter.
You meet rich men by engaging in activities he participate in. For example, tennis, hunting, and golf.
Lectures and entrepreneur meetups are also good hunting grounds. This way, you can snatch up a rich man before he becomes rich.
What are his hobbies and interests?
When you want to make a rich man fall in love with you, start by deciding what kind of rich man you want, and study the different types carefully.
When you have decided on a type, ask yourself what this specific man would be doing in his life. Where does he go on holiday? How does he keep fit? What does he do to contribute to society?
When you have a list of 5-10 activities, just make those activities your activities.
You met him in his pond. You charm him by your presence.
Exposure makes us fall in love, rich and poor alike
The most likely explanation as to why my friend’s plan didn’t work out is that few people fall in love at first sight. There was simply not enough time for her to make one of those men fall in love with her.
Sure, there is lust at first sight. I’m sure she could have slept with a few of them, but that’s not really what we are looking for.
We desire what we are exposed to. The more exposure, the likelier we fall in love. This principle is why companies spend a lot of money on commercials.
How to wow a rich man
When you have found a specific rich man you want to target, read my article How do you keep a rich man interested?
1. The successful entrepreneur
When you want a rich man to fall in love with you, this type of guy should be your top pick. They are by far the easiest ones to catch and the easiest ones to convince of marriage.
When they find a woman who matches their dream women, they will quickly lock her down since they don’t have an overinflated ego. (At least not regarding their effect on the opposite sex.)
The nerdier he looks, the bigger the chance that you succeed.
He is the perfect target
This guy comes from humble beginnings; he is not spoiled. He made his money thanks to his brilliant mind and good timing.
This background makes him fertile ground for you to come and sweep him away.
He wants a woman who can understand how far he has come, as well as be comfortable around his newfound wealth and new friends. Fulfill those qualities, and you will have yourself a deal.
How to make him fall in love with you
This man wants a woman he can be impressed with. He was probably a bit of a geek growing up, so he is extra receptive to female beauty and female allure.
Do use your feminity when you want to seduce him.
He might still be a bit insecure, so show him your confidence when you are around other people. When the two of you are alone, you should be humble and admit that you don’t have it all figured out.
In private, make him feel like your protector.
Which woman will he fall for?
This man worked extremely hard to achieve his success. When he was burning the midnight oil, he dreamt of the woman who would make it all worth it.
He wants a woman who is sophisticated and successful in her own capacity. You don’t have to be rich, but you have to be strong and independent and have your own identity.
Balance those qualities with being vulnerable when the two of you are alone, and you will make him fall in love with you.
To find more specific qualities that will impress the rich entrepreneur, read my article What does a rich man look for in a woman?
2. The hard-working rich man
This rich man is different from the entrepreneur in the sense that he is not innovative.
He didn’t start a company. Instead, he successfully climbed the career ladder. He might be a stockbroker, a business lawyer, or a luxury real estate agent. He works hard for his money, and most likely, he enjoys his job.
His job is also a big part of his identity; he takes great pride in what he does professionally.
How to make him fall in love with you?
You should start by complimenting him on his achievements.
This man is usually a bit of a control freak, especially if he is also fit and lives in a nice apartment.
This information should tell you that he likes only the best for himself.
He dreams of a woman who matches that energy.
Two subcategories to be aware of
This kind of man falls into two separate categories: one category wants an equally successful woman, and he wants to be a power couple. A good example of this is Amal and George Cloney.
The second category wants a woman who can help him in his ambitions. He longs for a sweet, supportive woman who knows his needs before he even knows them himself.
He wants a woman who helps him relax when he is not working and celebrates his victories with him.
How do you capture his heart?
To make this second category fall in love with you, show him how you can bring value to his life and how he can shine with your admiration backing him up.
The first category will fall in love with a woman who is both successful and beautiful. To get that kind of rich man to fall in love with you, work on your own success as well as have other parts of your life in order. This man is most likely to fall in love with an extraordinary woman.
They both have their type
Both categories of this man is always thinking about where to go next and how to reach even higger. Asking him about his plans and goals for the future should be your next step.
Keeping these two categories separate is very important when you tailor your approach since these two men would not fall for the same woman.
3. The sports star
This guy made his money by being extremely good at one single thing. Some musicians also fall into this category. Those types of men can be pretty single-minded as they have to focus all their effort to achieve one single thing.
This kind of rich man usually wants a trophy wife, but he also wants someone who sees all the other sides of his character.
Since this guy has been serious and working hard to achieve his goal, he is extremely vulnerable to someone who is fun and playful.
How to make him fall in love
Do bring your childish side. Show him that there is more to life than hard work.
This guy needs relief from focusing on trying to achieve his goals.
If you meet this guy when he is already in his ” retired” state, you make him fall in love with you by seeing the sides that have not been accessible to the public eye.
Appreciate all his different sides
All his life, he has been seen for his God-like ability in one area. If you notice what an excellent chef he is or how intelligent he is, you will win him over.
Just view him differently than the rest of the world views him.
If you met him when his career has ended, he might be confused about his purpose in life at this moment. You can help him figure out the answer and he will fall for you as a result.
Don’t only see him as a sports star. See all the other sides he has and how he can be successful in one of them.
4. The ”old money” guy
This guy didn’t make his money himself.
This makes him a very different beast regarding which woman he falls in love with.
These kinds of men often choose a woman with a similar background. Rich people like to stick with other rich people.
Maybe not when it comes to sex and casual dating, but don’t waste your precious time trying to lock him down if you want marriage. These kinds of rich guys are the most difficult to manage to marry.
If you just want to date, you can go ahead.
He will marry within his class
Most likely, the story will end with him marrying a stick-up bitch his mother introduced him to (and being unfaithful to her since it is a marriage because of class.)
Another important problem to take into consideration with this man is that there is usually an old crusty lawyer insisting on a prenuptial agreement.
People who inherited their money are usually very careful with how they spend it.
This brings me to my next warning: make sure he likes to spend his money. This type of man can be a notorious cheapskate.
Many rich men you meet will fall into the ”old money” category. They are, after all, the most common kind of rich people.
Most rich people didnt make their money themselves, they inhertitade it.
Make sure he is a nice man
When you meet this kind of man, It is important that you properly assess his character. Don’t be blinded by his wealth, just like a rich man is blinded by a beautiful appearance.
Within this category, there are two subcategories, and those are the ones you should aim for. The first one is the man who marries a “woman of the people” to piss off his parents. This can absolutely work out. We live in a progressive society.
You make him fall in love with you by being everything he is not. Be a rebel.
He likes the very fact that you are not rich and that you have simple habits. Dont try to be like him, he likes you because he wants to rebel against his upbrining.
Be a Robin Hood, steal his heart, and live happily ever after.
Choose a good man
The other category is an extremely good-hearted man. He is kind and generous, and his wealth has not gotten to his head.
In fact, most of the time, he genuinely falls in love with you.
Do ask yourself if he is a good person to ensure the man you are targeting falls into this category.
To make him fall in love with you are easy, just be as good and nice as he is.
I’m guessing you want your man to be both rich and nice, so make sure you read my article How To Find A Good Man Who Will Treat You Right.
5. The rich ashole
When you want to make a rich man fall in love with you, it is important that you know the different types of rich men that exist.
You don’t want to get just any rich man.
What you need to be especially aware of is the rich assholes. They are everywhere. All the men I have described above can (unfortunately) fall into this category too. For example, you can be a successful entrepreneur and a rich asshole at the same time.
He is ruthless, that’s how he became rich
Most of them made their money themselves. But around 30 percent inherited the money. Many of them inherited a bit of money and made it grow exponentially by being assholes.
These men are always smart and, more often than not, pretty ugly. They usually have a bit of a Napoleon complex. Their wealth is a way to get back at a world they regard as injustice.
They often have a past trauma they would never admit to.
You might think that you can use your big breasts and long blonde hair to play him, but this type of man is intelligent and cunning.
There is a reason he is successful and rich, and that reason is (as you might have guessed.) that he isn’t a nice human.
How to make the rich asshole fall in love with you
You make this man fall in love with you by being as smart as him or being someone he can control.
This kind of man always wants to have the most beautiful woman. So, looking like a model is a basic requirement. A rich asshole will never choose an average-looking woman.
The only time he might choose someone ordinary is if he is extremely controlling. Most of these men are very average-looking themselves, some of whom are ugly. So that’s why they are so obsessed with female beauty.
When you meet rich men, analyze their character
Don’t be blinded by his wealth and his attempt to woe you. Money is not everything. If you do think that money is everything, go ahead.
This man does like a big challenge, so if you try to reject him, he might try even harder. If you want to make him fall in love with you, act a bit aloof, mysterious, and not easily impressed.
He loves to use his wealth to win you over.
Become rich yourself
When you are rich, you naturally hang out with other rich people. You have the same friends and you frequent the same places. In your effort to become rich, you can ask rich men to be your mentors and thus get access to their valuable time.
Many rich people are skeptical about “Marrying down,” so that’s another reason why it is a smart move to become rich yourself.
Another important aspect of making a rich man fall for you is to make an impact. Check out my article What makes a woman memorable to a man?
A final note on how to get a rich man to fall in love with you
All rich men have something in common and that is that they like a challenge. When you want to make a rich man fall in love with you; be a challenge. He probably has beautiful women bending over backward to please him.
But you can be different and stand out from the competition. Make him work for you, not the other way around. It has to be his idea to fall in love with you. You cannot convince him.
But by being alluring and mysterious, you can trigger his need for a hunt, and the two of you might end up wealthy and happily married.
Moa Ailert is the founder and editor-in-chief of Her Brilliant Friend.
She has a bachelor’s degree in philosophy and plenty of insight into human psychology from traveling and living in different places around the world.
Moa is currently based in Portugal where she has a guesthouse; Villa dos Irmaos.
She has various websites, among others Ericeira Insider, but Her brilliant friend is her true passion project.