Are you thinking about sleeping with a younger guy? Don’t hesitate. Younger guys are playful, fun and open to trying new things. They have lots of energy and an eagerness to learn from you. In this article we take a look at what younger guys like in bed. Be prepared to blow his mind. You will be the best sex of his life.
1. Sexting
For younger guys, their phones have become integrated into their sex lives. Many younger guys (although not all) take the opportunity to watch porn on their phones. There are countless sexy Instagram and TikTok accounts.
So, when you want to get under the skin of a younger guy and make him excited before your meeting, start by sending him some flirty text messages.
Tell him about your plans
Take some nice pictures and write exactly what you want to do with him if you can make him blush, even better.
Read our full sexting guide here How to turn a guy on over text.
2. Porn-inspired sex
The biggest difference between sleeping with a younger and an older guy is that things move much faster with a younger guy.
Many younger guys have yet not learned that the best way to make any woman orgasm is a long and slow foreplay with lots of kissing.
They themselves get horny quick; they go from 1 to 100 in a couple of minutes. And before you have time to say, “Wet pussy,” they are altering between ten new positions you’ve never tried before.
He has lots of ideas
As you are being held upside down, you wonder where he gets all these crazy ideas from. The answer, in most cases, is porn together with his wicked imagination.
Harder, faster and more penetration
Older guys take their time. They know there is no stress in sex. Younger guys like to make you feel like you are starring in a porn movie. Obs, there is nothing wrong with this kind of sex. In fact, enjoy all that youthful fire.
Pay him back by moaning, screaming, and telling him exactly how good he feels. Take the opportunity to be the most vocal version of yourself.
A young guy will love it when you love what he is doing.
Go with the flow and let him show you a good time.
3. Anal sex
Younger guys are much more open to anal-anything. Bring out the anal-adjusted sex toys. Let him give you a rim job. Play around with his backdoor while giving him a blowjob.
Many young guys have never tried anal sex, but they have heard a lot about it, and they are curious to be invited to this exclusive club.
Of course, other younger guys will have more experience than you when it comes to anal-fun. Take the opportunity and let him teach you exactly how it is done.
Pegging
A lot of older guys stay away from having their anal stimulated for fear of being “gay.” Younger guys know that their anal is an erogenous zone as well.
(OK, not all younger guys, please ask before you bring out your harness.)
If he likes anal stimulation, ask if he would be open for pegging. It is much more likely that a younger guy is open to this than an older guy.
4. Quantity over quality
If you are older, you probably prefer quality over quantity.
After all, you have a house loan to pay and children to raise, so time is not something you have in abundance. (To state it mildly.)
But younger guys have lots of free time, and they like to have sex for hours. On top of that, younger guys have much bigger stamina and a sensual mind to match their capabilities.
All that youthful energy is beautiful to experience, so make sure you give him as much time as he needs.
Basically, younger like to spend hours making love, like they don’t have anywhere else they need to be.
(Which, in most cases, they haven’t.)
4. Getting outside of their comfort zone
Younger guys like to experiment in bed. They have not learned everything they will like, sexually speaking.
They don’t know if they like latex, floggers, or masks. So, there is a lot of experimenting to be done.
With an older guy, you often get, “I’ve tried it once, and I didn’t like it.”
With a younger guy, there is no telling what he will like. Go ahead and order a bunch of sex toys. Ropes, handcuffs, vibrators, everything that looks yummy.
Being young is all about discovering the world. Young people are open-minded and ready to experiment.
Younger guys like to try new things in bed. Give him what he wants, and he will remember your openness years from now.
5. Playing with BDSM
Most men like to dominate in bed. This goes even for men who are not like that outside of the bedroom. But for some reason, men (as a general rule) feel very mainly when you give them the chance to be the boss.
Try roleplaying as his sex slave and see where the game takes you.
6. Being with a dominatrix
Since he is younger and you are older, take the opportunity to be his headmistress. A firm, naughty version of your inner dominatrix.
Since you anyway ordered ropes and a blindfold, mix up the roles and let him experience being a sexy toy in your mature capable hand.
If he is a young guy attracted to the idea of sleeping with an older woman, there is a good chance that he has a submissive side.
7. A strong woman who seduces them
There is one big common fantasy among most younger guys, and that is to be seduced by an experienced woman.
She only needs him for sex; she knows a lot of new tricks he has never heard of before.
But foremost, she takes the initiative. (No waiting weeks and going on countless dates to finally getting laid.)
She is crazy horny, and she wants him badly.
You are the one who pursues him
With younger women, he always has to work very hard to get them in bed, not so with this cougar.
Play into this caricature and fulfill his secret fantasy of being desired. Take the initiative, seduce him and show him how you are crazy for him.
Even men long to feel desired. Especially young men, since there is a chance they’ve never experienced this treat before.
8. Learning new tricks
Now, when you are in bed with a younger guy, take the opportunity to teach him exactly how you like something. Give him plenty of instructions when he goes down on you. Tell him what feels good to you when he is inside of you.
Since he is still young, you don’t insult his capabilities by making suggestions.
He is an eager student. In fact; taking instructions turns him on. Otherwise, he wouldn’t be in bed with an older woman.
Let him practiceon you
He wants you to show him the ropes. What young guys likes in bed is to practice, the bed is their playground and they like to fintune their skills.
9. When you experiment together
A younger guy will absolutely love it when you suggest new things you have never tried before. Old men usually get set in their ways. They know what works for them, and that’s the dish they are going to order.
So, go ahead and take full advantage of this splendid opportunity. Have sex outdoors. Visit a swinger club. Go on a naughty weekend in a remote cottage.
Get on the new ride
Think about all the things you want to try before you die, sexually speaking. Get creative. Make a list. Invite your younger guy along for the ride.
A young guy will like the fact that he can take you places and give you experiences you’ve never had before. This fact will make him feel powerful and masculine.
Taking the sex out of the bedroom
For many old guys, sex and the bedroom are intimately connected. (That’s how they’ve been doing it for the last 30 years or so.) Not so for a young guy. He is ready to have sex anywhere and everywhere. If you give them permission, young guys like to have sex anywhere but the bed.
11. Ask him what he wants and offer to give it to him
Young guys are more used to talking about sex. After all, sex is much less shameful now than it was 20 years ago.
Younger guys also have an easier time talking about their feelings. Seize the opportunity and ask him all sorts of questions about sex.
You will find out a lot of new information. Ask him what sex feels like for him. In fact, ask him any sexual question you’ve always wondered but been too prudish to ask.
Talking with a younger guy, you will learn a lot about sex. Younger guys like to talk about sex.
Fullfill his secret wishes
But don’t stop at talking, ask him about the things he wants to try but haven’t tried yet. Fulfill some of his fantasies.
Since he hasn’t that much experience, some of the fantasies will be easy to fulfill. For example, use ice cubes and hot tea when you give him a blowjob.
12. Learning more about you and women in general
One thing younger guys absolutely like in bed is learning how to satisfy a woman. Younger guys know they still have a lot to learn.
They absolutely crave for you to tell them what you like and to show them the right techniques.
With an older guy, you might respect his experience and let him take the lead. But this is not necessary with a younger guy. He chooses to sleep with you for a reason. And I’m betting a big reason was that he wanted to learn more about women sexuality.
Train him to perfection
He is there for you to teach him how to be a good lover. It will turn him on to take your expertise and and run with your feedback.
You are doing humankind a favor by training him in the art of cunilingus. (The next woman he sleeps with will thank you.)
13. That you can’t keep your hands off him
Any young man will have the need to feel like a stud, and you can fulfill that need. Just tell him how sexy he is and that you can’t keep your hands off him.
Proceed to show him exactly how horny you are.
You can show him his sexual power over you by sexting. Send pictures showing him how wet he makes you.
Look into his eyes, a lot
If that’s a bit too much for you, just be very sensual and precent when the two of you spend time together. Look him deep into his eyes. (Even when it is inappropriate.)
Give him naughty looks when the two of you are busy with non-sexual stuff. Tell him that you can’t wait to have him naked.
14. You dressing sexy
Men are much more visual than women. Most likely, you have been underestimating the way your look affects him. Younger men do find older women attractive, never doubt this simple fact.
Try your hands at sexy underwear. Dress up like a nurse or a sexy secretary. Younger guys like to roleplay in bed.
Never underestimate what a feminine dress can do for a young man, especially if you are not wearing any underwear. Young men like to be naughty.
Switch up your appearance
Another good trick is to mix up what you usually do; if you wear your hair down, try wearing it in a ponytail and vice versa. If you don’t wear lipstick, try red lipstick. If you like role-playing, you could even wear a wig.
Ask about his favorite color and wear a dress in that color. Overall, spend more time paying attention to your appearance and the effect it has on him.
A young guy will love you dressing sexy for him. This can be done both in private and in public.
15. Appreciate his way of making love
Everyone wants appreciation for their effort. Dont forget to compliment him on everything he does right. You would give a kid plenty of positive feedback, right?
Its the same principle with a young man. He has not yet heard that he is amazing in bed, you can be the first to tell him. Point out everything you like about the way he makes love to you.
Tell him exactly why you appreciate his sexy body and all his moves.
16. Rough Sex
Young guys are a bit rough around the edges. They are strong and enthusiastic and they like to dominate their woman.
Try being a bit rough towards him to show him that you are open for the animalistic side of sex. You can also openly discus different kinds of “rough” sex you like. Pinning you to the bed? Grabbing your hair? Slapping your ass?
Give him verbal permission to be a bit rough in the bedroom. Most young guys absolutely like things a bit rough in the bed.
A final note on What Do Younger Guys Like In Bed
I started out by saying that young guys like porn-inspired sex, that is true. But it is also true that most men like all kinds of sex. Young men also like slow, sensual sex with lotf of nice music and candles.
What all men like above everything else is variation.
Moa Ailert is the founder and editor-in-chief of Her Brilliant Friend.
She has a bachelor’s degree in philosophy and plenty of insight into human psychology from traveling and living in different places around the world.
Moa is currently based in Portugal where she has a guesthouse; Villa dos Irmaos.
She has various websites, among others Ericeira Insider, but Her brilliant friend is her true passion project.
