How to talk intimately with your boyfriend over text

Texting can be a lot of fun. It can also lead to a deeper connection between you and your boyfriend. Maybe there are some secret things you rather reveal over text than in person. If you want to turn him on, I will also tell you how to do that. Let’s take a look at how to talk intimately with your boyfriend over text.

5 short tips to talk intimately with your boyfriend over text

• Start by telling him that you are thinking about him. Hopefully, he replies and asks what exactly you are thinking. Tell him you are thinking about what you want to do with him. The activity can be everything from something sweet, like holding his hand or going on a picnic, to something more X-rated.
• Send him a picture (the picture can be either cute or sexy) and tell him, “You can never guess what I was thinking when I took that picture.”
• Ask him what his favorite thing about you is. Alternatively, ask him about what his favorite memory of you is. Then tell him; I will never tell you mine.
• If you want to amp up the temperature, ask him to send you a photo of himself. Tell him you need a picture to match all the dirty thoughts you have going on in your mind right now.
• If your objective is to talk with your boyfriend intimately rather than sensually, ask him what his goals are for the next year. Make him talk about it and ask him which steps he will take to get there. You can also ask him what he feels most passionate about right now.

Understanding guys and texting

I will give you more tips on how to talk intimately with your boyfriend over text further down.

But before we look at these tips, it is important you understand a bit more about guys and texting. Otherwise, you risk pushing them away.

Not everyone likes texting

Not all guys like texting.

In fact, most guys like texting sometimes, but not all the time.

Texting a guy too often will give him a sense that you are dependent on him.

So while you should try to bring him closer by texting, dont depend on this teqnique.

If you are not getting the response you are looking for, take a step back and focus on what you are passionate about when it comes to your hobbies and your life.

His texts should not be your biggest source of happiness.

He might be busy

When you text a guy, you never know if he is busy or if he just has other things on his mind. He might be preoccupied with an important work project (or with playing video games.)

Long-distance relationships and texting

One of the reasons why you might ask the question how to talk intimately with your boyfriend over text, is that you are in a long distanse relationship.

Check out our guide here How to comfort your boyfriend in a long-distance relationship.

When you have a long-distance relationship with your boyfriend, texting is a good way to stay connected and develop your love story.

Improve your sexting game and create a deep, intimate relationship with your boyfriend

• Ask him about what he likes. Ask him what turns him on and about what his favorite sex position is. You can use the information you get next time you meet.
• Ask him about a secret fantasy he has not yet tried but would like to fulfill.
• Tell him what you like, both when it comes to sex and when it comes to other things in life.
• Tell him about an erotic experience you just had. Maybe you took a bath and listened to some sensual music. Or made a nice dinner for yourself? Or maybe you are reading an erotic book or watching an erotic movie.
• Make a little video and dance just for him.
• Make a video of you undressing when you go to bed. There is something intimate with watching someone undress. It is both sexy and sweet.
• Ask him if he has any secret plans for his life that he hasn’t told anyone about.
• Ask him what he would do with his life if he had all the money he wanted and knew he would die in 10 years. (A bit of a harsh question, but an interesting one.)
• Tell him about the things you like about him. Be very specific. Tell him both things about his looks and about his personality.
• Ask him where he would want to go if the two of you could just jump on a plane tomorrow and have a holiday.
• Ask him what his ideal day would look like. What would the two of you do? What would you eat? You learn a lot about a person by asking about their ideal day.
• Ask him about his favorite song and what it means to him and when he heard it the first time.
• Tell him a sex fantasy you have about him. What do you want him to do? What do you want to do to him? For more ideas to excite your boyfriend, read our guide, How To Tease Your Boyfriend – 9 Naughty Ways To Excite Your Partner.
• Send him some Kama Sutra pictures and ask him which position he would like to try next time.
• Send him some pictures you have taken of him that he hasn’t seen yet. Tell him you liked the time you spent together and tell him what you liked about it.

Intimacy and sex

How to talk intimately with your boyfriend over text is a good question because sex is never just about sex. Amazing sex is about the strong bond you manage to create with your boyfriend.

You should talk about sex with him, but you should also talk about everything else that is important in life.

How to turn a guy on over text?

If you have ever asked yourself this question, make sure you check out our guide How to turn a guy on over text.

A final note on how to talk intimately with your boyfriend over text

Creating a deep and loving relationship is a two-way street. Both of you need to share your truths and be open to the conversation. But when your boyfriend likes texting and already adores you, all these strategies will give you a strong relationship. He will love your openness and playfulness.